Reality and false expectations during sex as related to premature ejaculation.

Let’s see the reality of how sex should be and what the false expectations are among many men.

Being a man is not an easy ride

Whether you live in today’s developed Western world or elsewhere, chances are you are hard-wired to believe that a man is all about building, creating, and achieving;

building your CV, creating your life, achieving your goals.

We are taught to be ambitious, to aim high, and to bring the best possible results to our lives as well as to the lives of others.

We are indoctrinated to pursue perfection, professional and personal, and if we fail to do so, we think we are “losers”, a “failure” or a “disappointment”.

The irony is, perfection doesn’t exist, so what’s the point in chasing something inexistent?

Even worse, what’s the point of bringing this perfectionist mentality in areas of your life which are meant to be about pleasure, joy, and carelessness?

As you might have guessed, your sex life is one such area; it is an area where the “responsibility to achieve” and the burden “to succeed” should be left aside…

your goal in sex cannot and should not be an egocentric one;

your goal cannot and should not be how to perform, how to be perfect in bed or how to prove that you can give your partner an orgasm through penetration.

Your goal should be to develop a satisfactory way of making love, so as both get pleasure.

Accept that you are not a perfect sex machine, but a man who can give and take pleasure through a sexual encounter.

Sexuality and sex are more about desire and satisfaction rather than arousal and orgasm.

Though underperforming or ejaculating before your woman has, or uncontrollably is a big problem.
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